Just read Holly Jean blog and got to know she had just break up with GB.
Sad for her but one thing i like what she said , is that "It's not a matter of patience, or "good things come with time".... it's a matter of the heart. "

If two people get together but the ultimate goal that they want in life (eg. marriage) is totally different, there is no point staying together in the relationship as the end result when the time comes, is break up or divorce.

One more thing i like and i totally agreed with what she said, is "When I think of marriage, I think of love. A happy, fulfiling and powerful kind of love. I think of giving (and in turn receiving) unparallelled comfort, happiness and such promise for the future together."

You has to feel right. In order to feel right, you not only need the right person , you also need to meet the right person at the right time. Like my exs, we may feel right in the beginning, but as time goes by, you will find out what we want in life is totally different. Like me , i want to settle down, whereas for them , settle down is not now. they want freedom, they want to have fun. If forcing to be together, we will end up no way but quarrel than break up. So what is the point of holding back and not letting go??

They maybe feel that they are still young, but for me, not like i'm so old like that, just that, i'm thinking further more. I don't believe in staying long in relationship, bcoz i have seen people end up break up or divorce after been together for 7 to 8 years. So time cannot be used to measure relationship.

Maybe i still finding the right person at the right time. And i don't know when will it be but I still believe in love. Perhaps more than ever.